Archive for August, 2006

Weekend Highlights

  • Late night Wal-Mart run
  • Two trips to Taco Bell
  • Church
  • Hang out with Robby
  • Watch some movies
  • Little Miss Sunshine
  • Cool Hand Luke
  • Tank Girl
  • Mayor of the Sunset Strip
  • Wedding Singer
  • Hearing about my brother tripping on a step and flying through a window
  • Awkward conversation with building manager
  • Seeing Fat Mitch and Leah
  • Drunken messages from my dad
  • Did you catch that last one? You probably read it right. More drunk messages from my dad. This time I wasn’t the only one though. He called up the siblings too. He really knows how to make a child feel loved. I should probably do that if I have kids someday, right?

    Counseling

    So Liz and I are doing pre-marital counseling. It’s been going pretty well. Last night Barb declared that I was “so cute”. This may sound inappropriate or weird, but she’s old and old people can say whatever they feel like. They’ve earned the right to speak their mind. We also took a compatibility test and we scored 100% in four areas and scored high in every other category. Apparently I’m also an exceptional listener, have good communication skills and am able to interpret well. This is starting to sound more like an ego-booster than counseling if you ask me.

    Books? Intellect?

    I like to read. That’s just how I’ve always been. When I was a kid my mom used to yell at me to go outside and do something because I sat around and read too much. Seriously - ask my siblings. Reading was just something I loved and still love to do. I loved classic literature, biographies, sci-fi and fantasy. I loved being able to experience things through the eyes and shoes of others. Reading about deep sea adventures, the conquest of peoples and nations, people stranded on desert isles, etc, etc. I feel like this opened my eyes to many things. I was also able to talk intelligently about so many things in elementary and wow teachers left and right.

    Then I came to high school and kind of stopped reading for fun. I had things to read for class, I played football, I was in band and high up in the echelons of the chess club. I had things to do and not enough time for much else. Then I hit college and had even more to read and even more social opportunities to meet people and foster relationships. Eventually I was done with that college thing though and in 2003 I started reading for fun again. This summer, Robby, Liz and I have started a book club and have currently gotten through one book.

    So I guess it comes as a shock to me when I talk to many of my friends who have read little to no books. I feel like I’ve read more classic than contemporary literature, but I’m talking zero books here. It’s like a generation of TV watchers and videogamers have replaced the book readers. I enjoy TV and movies as much as the next guy, but I started out on books. In fact, I watch at least three movies a week on average. There have been days where I’ve watched 8+ movies, and I have been known to do a tripple header at the movie theater.

    I think part of the reason I like books so much is that I wasn’t allowed to watch TV as a kid. I also really wanted to learn to read. The first day of kindergarten, I came home quite mad. When my mom asked what the matter was, I responded with, “I can’t even read!” Apparently somebody had told me I’d go to school and learn how to read and I assumed this was instantaneous. So why do the ‘millenials’ of today refuse to read books? I’m not really sure myself. Has the modern movie and entertainment sapped the imagination out of our children? Is it a laziness or lack of attention span? Is it not cool to read books and be smart?

    I had an interesting conversation today over lunch with Stefan, Renata, Leon and Michael. We were discussing some of this. In Europe, it happens to be quite fashionable to develop yourself and learn about something. Whether this is local/national history or even a hobby, it’s the social norm to know something. I’ve always heard that the Europeans come out of the high school equivalents much smarter, brighter and globaly aware than their North American counterparts. They may not know all about the NFL, NBA or MLB, but they can tell you about Nietzsche, Alexander Dumas or King George. So what’s really important for being a productive citizen of the world? Is the american education system flawed?

    I think my education was a little bit different from the average person just because of some teachers I had, schools I attended, and the promptings of my mother. However, is there really a problem with education in the United States? Other countries seem to think so and they are continually outscoring the US in test scores. Is the real problem funding, facilities and man power? Maybe the problem is that it’s not “cool” to be smart anymore. Maybe the problem is that society as a whole is discouraging children from being all they can be. Maybe we all just need to pick up a good book once in a while and read about something.

    Jim the waiter

    Last night Liz took me out to eat at this nice steak place, Ruth’s Chris, in Indy. We had a waiter, Jim, that was phenomenal. There’s a fine line between being funny and personable without getting too personal. It’s something that’s hard to explain, but I’m sure most of you have experienced this. Sometimes a waiter/waitress is too impersonable. You feel like they don’t care about you and could care less about refilling your glass or making sure your food is cooked the way you asked. Other times the wait staff gets a little too personable. Yeah, it’s nice that they might tell a joke or be funny, but it’s not like you need a life story from them or want to tell them yours. I’ve even had restaurant staff make very inappropriate comments and remarks to me before. These have mostly resulted in me calling them out on it and me getting free things because they don’t want me to talk to a manager.

    Anyways, Jim was awesome. He had a genuine smile and seemed to really care. When he gave us our check he kinda forgot to put our food on it. So we pointed that out to him. He declared that Liz was “a keeper” and I had to agree. Oh yeah, and the food was pretty good too. So if you’re over there, and now would be the time to go because they have a cheap menu available on Monday nights, ask for Jim.

    Phantom Cell Phone Rings

    I’ve talked to friends before that sometimes have “phantom cell phone ringing”. I hate most ring tones and keep my phone on vibrate all the time. I also keep my phone in my pocket instead of one of those holster things on my belt - I think they look stupid. Sometimes I feel like my phone is “ringing” but when I pull it out of my pocket, there’s nothing happening.

    I think I finally figured out what’s happening. I have an LG 1400 and any time it’s searching for a signal and I’m close to a speaker you start hearing the clicking/buzzing noise coming out of the speaker. It’s kinda weird. Sometimes it’ll do that right before it receives a call too. Well, right now I’m in the basement of a building that gets absolutely no cell coverage. Too much cement and steel surrounding me. I also just realized that my phone was continuously giving me that phantom vibrate feel. That’s when I realized it wasn’t “ringing”, it was just searching for a signal.

    The vibrations aren’t a normal ring, they’re very faint. However, I usually wear baggy pants and shorts with big pockets. My phone is never really touching my leg so all I ever really feel is partial “rings” the way it is.

    Has anybody else experienced this same thing?

    Peeping Trees?

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    I’ve heard of peeping toms before, but I never realized how the plant world might come into this equation. C.S. Lewis wrote of living, talking trees in his fictional children’s series, The Chronicles of Narnia. They always say that every myth has an ounce of truth to it. I guess they were right about that one.

    Bendy is back!

    That’s right. He’s back. Whether you call him Bendog, Bendy, Bendopolis, Gastright, B-dog or even just Ben, you’ll be happy to know he’s back in the states. Got to hang out with him, Robby and Cheeks today. Also picked up Clap Your Hands Say Yeah. It’s a pretty rockin album.

    Accident

    Joe and I saw drove by this on our way back from Rally’s not too long after it happened.

    Bufords

    This is Joe’s last week at work and today Joe and I went out for a last hurrah lunch. We hit up Rally’s for some Pepper Jack Bufords and Fully Loaded Fries. They were amazing as usual. We also went to Pac-a-sac (I can never remember what it’s called now even though that name has changed a couple times) to get beverages and sit down to eat. Definitely a quality lunch break.

    ¡Viva la revolución!

    Apparently they read my letter cause stuff is getting done. Over the weekend the building manager was out spraying weeds, fixing the sign, getting the roof looked at, etc. The owners were also around talking to people and having the manager show them around. I’d like to think I made a difference. Hopefully the place won’t turn into a dump just yet.